I wouldn't say a switch was flipped and voila!, all was back to normal, but we were able to get beyond it and healing was done. I certainly didn't know it existed, but once Matt aired the dirty laundry of our marriage on that fateful day in 2005, it was as though a cloud had been lifted, and our marriage has only gotten stronger since.
However, and he knows this... I will never, ever let him forget what he did and how it impacted my/our life. That is called communication. (Plus, I am never really been known to keep my mouth shut. Doh!)
Through some forgiveness of his own, Matt was also able to conquer the pornography addiction he had struggled with for so long. He ended up writing a book about his journey and what it means to model Jesus in your marriage... which, let's be honest, is a very difficult thing to do.
Those are my words, and that is my story.